"Through touch we can feel, even feel the touch of the unknown”.
The purpose of this system is to enhance your sexual pleasure to heights never felt before.
During intercourse we have a very profound experience that can be transcendental beyond our mind, to be in touch with the divine ecstasy.
Here you can achieve spiritual ecstasies of different kinds as well as physical.
You can use this energy for healing on yourself and others.
Hormonal balance for male and female
Awakening of kundalini
Full of creative energy
Harder and lasting penis erections
G spot, Hspot, K spot enhanced sensitivity of the vagina.
The Wild Sexy Spirit Of Adonis Reiki Attunement is for both men and women
Adonis is a breathtakingly handsome spirit. Heis fun, gorgeous and a divine lover in every sense of the phrase. He is a diety of pleasure.
Enhance your sex lif
He serves as a great Aphrodisiac
Enhance your love life
To invoke playful energy within you
For women to feel beautiful and sexy
For men to feel handsome and sexy
To bring out the passion in yo
Become less robotic & more uninhibited in bed.
To discover erotic pleasure
For men to feel andBE irristible to women
For women to feel and BE irresistible to m
Freedom from sexual guilt and shame
To bring out the playful side in you
Become more orgasmic
To Become a better kisser
For men to maintain erections
To improve your sexual body image.
You will receive the manual, distant attunement and a certificate.
Into Me You See by Linda Kaye
You will receive the distant attunement, certificate and manual
This is a very special attunement for surrendering ourselves to emotional and sexual intimacy.
SOME OF THE BENEFITS YOU COULD EXPERIENCE
Bathe in the warm beautiful energy of intimacy
Ability to Experience Emotional and Sexual Intimacy
Let go of childhood emotional and sexual issues
Let go of past adult emotional and sexual issues
Experience greater love, joy and intimacy in your relationship
Free yourself of Sexual Shame and Guilt
Experience Sexual and Emotional Euphoria
More Sexual Aliveness
Ability to Fall in Love
Ability to Experience Orgasms
Attrac t Love
Attract A Sexual Partner
Enjoy Oral Sex
Allow Yourself To Be More Vulnerable
Experience Your Sensuality
Feel more sexy
Discover Your Sexual Spiritual Self
Increase Self Worth
Experience Body Confidence
Heal, love and nurture your inner child
And so much more…
IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE THE WORLD LOVE A WOMAN
Awaken the Tantric God and Goddess Within - From Rosemary & Linda Tantra is a Sanskrit word that means expansion of consciousness and liberation of energy.
By opening up to our sensual spirituality, we discover parts of ourselves that have been repressed. True Tantra allows you to explore the connection between your own inner sexuality and your spiritual self. Tantra transforms your sexaul and turns it into the spiritual. Sexual ecstasy is a tasteof the divine. True Tantra assists you in finding bliss in all areasof your life. You will receive remote attunement - manual and certificate sent via email
The eyes are one of the sensual attractions and eye contact is needed in flirting or attract the attention. From the eyes, desire, courage, self-confidence, personality a person can be known. The Diamond Magical Eyes makes our eyes become very bright and shiny and emit strong appeal vibrations for couples or opposite sex. This attunement gives strength in our eyes for radiating confidence, self esteem and affection. It's really helped us in communicate fluently.
You will receive distant attunement, manual and certificate.
Kiss is a most sensual and sensitive action, that most all people know as an expression of love, care, compassion, affection and connection. Kiss, in whatever form, is actually a basic instinctiveness which show the feelings of oneness, respectful, grateful, togetherness and a big family of universal creatures. Kiss is not always a sensual behavior can also be a sensitivity of feelings of oneness among us. Kiss is an action representing a deeper sensation of "I am You" and " You are me" or "You are not alone" or "We are the same".
Depending on the culture and context, a kiss can express sentiments of love, passion, affection, respect, greeting, friendship, and good luck, among many others. In some situations a kiss is a ritual, formal or symbolic gesture indicating devotion, respect or greeting, as in the case of a bride and groom kissing at the conclusion of a wedding ceremony or national leaders kissing each other in greeting, and in many other situations.
Kiss Energetic Healing is a tenderly energetic healing which stimulates a great healing power from our self to be further used as an improvement of Health, Wealth and Happiness. Basically, it's an energetic system for promoting self-healing ability in better level because its high energy vibration has properties to increase our chakras in their highest possible function. As they function well, it allow us to held a better connection with the Source of Universe. Therefore, it used to improve our spiritual path.
Kiss Energetic Healing uplifts our energy flow into Heart and Sacral Chakra. Thus it promotes a better connection as well as relationship and love without condition within ourselves and another person. It also increase calmness, peace, strength, courage and self-worth as we have feel we are not alone. It helps us to dismiss sadness, sorrows, pains, losses, loneliness and suffering.
For people who had a "broken heart" feelings which often brings a negative effect of "losing", it aids them to recover their wounded heart and give a strength and courage to standing still to facing up the pain, so they can transmute it into pure love. They may have a deep understanding that "Love is beyond everything and Love isn't recognize the loss because Everything is Love."
Kiss Energetic Healing increases a vitality power and raises a magical transformation within ourselves. This system also beautifully stimulates our sensuality and raises our sexual pleasure as well. Thus it will remove the traumas related with sexual violence, sexual embarrassment and sexual harassment/abuse. It will return us to our basic need of sexuality in their genuine form - to retain the power of life in intimate relationships, strengthen the bonds with a lover, finding a right person for life partner and more are the properties of this system. It is also has great healing properties to reduce a stress level, specially in marital and cohabiting relationship.
Good for complementary treatment for prostate cancer, urinary problem, premature ejaculation and frigidity.
promotes the adrenal glands to release epinephrine and norepinephrine (adrenaline and noradrenaline) into the blood, thereby causing an adrenaline rush, which has a beneficial impact on the cardiovascular system because the heart pumps faster
promotes healthiness of reproductive system as well as our sexual organs, increases the circulation of blood, improves the detoxification within our body and lowering cholesterol levels.
Woman's body only opens fully to a man who is fully and actively present and in his total integrity.
Her sacred feminine does not allow her little girl's need for attention, love or emotional upliftment via sex to over-ride her heart
Yoni Healing and Rejuvenation Attunement as 2 levels. Both levels have to be a week apart.
This attunement will help you with:
Sexual Essence Enhancement
Chakra - Nadi Balancing
Heightened G-Spot Response
Becoming In Sync with your Body
Becoming In Sync with your Partner
Development of Stronger and more Lasting Yoni Orgasm
Awakening Inherent Sacred Spiritual Sexuality
Heightened States of Consciousness In Orgasm
Grounding & Centering
Healthy Reproductive System
Reduction of Painful Intercourse & Other Yoni Physical Symptoms
Sexual Imprint Removal
Yoni Trauma Removal
Emotional, Physical & Ancestrial Healing
You will receive distant attunement, manual, and a certificate.
Pre-Requisite – Reiki Master
You will receive the manual, distant attunement and a certificate.
Yab-yum (Tibetan literally, "father-mother") is a common symbol in the Buddhist art of India, Bhutan, Nepal, and Tibet representing the male deity in sexual union with his female consort. Often the male deity is sitting in lotus position while his consort is sitting in his lap.
The symbolism is associated with Anuttarayoga tantra and, while there are various interpretations of the symbolism in the twilight language, the male figure is usually linked to compassion (karunā and skillful means (upāya-kauśalya), while the female partner to 'insight' (prajñā;).
The symbolism of union and sexual polarity is a central teaching in Tantric Buddhism, especially in Tibet. The union is realised by the practitioner as a mystical experience within one's own body.
Yab-Yum Reiki will help you with of consciousness and energy
Sexual healing and foreplay
Union of consciousness and energy
Wisdom and pure awareness
Fuses the masculine and feminine qualities within himself
Releases inner blocks and tensions
Control sexual energy
Higher, deeper, longer and rejuvenating orgarms
Well-being and joy
Manifest new realities…
New From Rosemary Noel:
W hat is a Pheromone? In a nutshell, it is the sexual scent of attraction.
It is scientifically proven that people who produce higher than average
human pheromones are highly individualized and have more success
with the opposite sex. As a result, this can cause an increase in hugging, kissing and sexual contact. If you are looking for the man or woman of your dreams, pheromones in your body scent are going to play a huge role in attracting a mate. When used with a partner these energies will create the desire within you and and your partner to stimulate and satisfy and to experience sensations mutually and experience loving ecstasy together. You will receive remote attunement, manual & certificate sent via save a tree method.
Sensual Reiki - From Rosemary Noel
Sensuality is not to be confused with sexuality or sex. Sensuality can arouse sexual desire, sexual desire can lead to sex and heighten a sexual experience, however; sensuality means to be aroused by that which is beautiful, that which is
refined and to love life with all your senses.
Sensual Reiki encompasses the 5 Senses:
* Sensual Sight
* Sensual Hearing
* Sensual Touch
* Sensual Taste
* Sensual Smell
Wake up your senses and sensuality with Sensual Reiki
You will receive a 18 page manual, 1 distance attunement and 1 certificate with all systems received at one time.
Sexual Flush Empowerment System - Levels 1-4 -
Founder Rosemary Noel The Sexual Flush Empowerment system energy is a very special frequency that is designed for mature adults. This energy requires a need for an open mind and an open heart.
In assisting clients with sexual issues over the years, i have discovered that many people are conservative when it comes to this subject, but at the same time struggle with the frustration and desire to feel sexier, achieve sexual freedom and higher levels of sexual satisfaction.
Even if you do not have any sexual issues, the Sexual Flush Empowerment System works to clear out spiritual, physical, emotional and mental blockages that prevent you from experiencing the ulitmate sexual union on all levels in the here and now.
The purpose of the Sexual Flush Empowerment System is to allow the life force energy to flow freely and to allow you to have more depth and intimacy in your sexual experience. The Sexual Flush Empowerment System will release blocks, Trapped emotions and will activate, then stabilize your sexual bio-generator.
Levels 1-3 is a personal use system only. Level 4 is master teacher level.
These are fixed fee systems. You will receive distance attunement by chi ball only, pdf manual and certificate sent by email.
The Sexual Flush Empowerment System Level 4 - Founder Rosemary Noel Pre-Requisite: Levels 1-3 . It is alsorequired that you be a Reiki Master to pass to others. To purchaseLevel 4 I will need your lineage for levels 1-3.
TheSexual Flush Empowerment Level 4 will free you from the pain of beinghurt in the past. This flush will allow you to once again beemotionally safe and trusting. Without trust in your intimaterelationships, you can expect to find anxiety, fear and disappointment.If you desire healthy sex, trust is essential.
Level 4 is also a master teacher level so you will now be able to share this system with others.
This system is a fixed fee system. You will receive pdf manual and certificate sent by email and one chi ball attunement.
Love & Romance Elixir Attunement benefits both woman and men and those who are single, divorced, widowed or married. In otherwards, Love & Romance Elixer Attunement is for EVERYONE. Its energies are for anyone who desires love or to rekindle the love spark in relationships.
IF YOU ARE SINGLE,
Love & Romance Elixir™ will increase your confidence, remove old emotional wounds, increase self love and attract kindred spirits and soul connections with like beliefs, like values, wants and needs.
IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIED ,
Love & Romance Elixir Attunement will resore those areas in your relationship which need repair. If this is the case, this attunement will infuse you and your relationship with happiness energy, forgiveness energy and the rekindling of sexual passion energies to renew and spice up a stale or non-existent love life.
A FEW OF THE BENEFITS OF THE LOVE & ROMANCE ELIXER ATTUNEMENT
Benefits of Love & Romance Elixir™:
Beauty & Attractiveness
Suitable Perfect Matches
You will receive the distant attunement, manual and certificate.
SECRETO DE AMOR
Si das con aquel espacio infinito más sensible de la mujer,
que la dicha te lleve con la mano y los labios a la fragancia de su cuerpo, su contorno impensado;
entonces notarás cómo sus ojos despiden una luz temblorosa,
entrando en la corriente de un arroyo, catarata y lago cristalino bajo los rayos del sol perdurable,
como si fueras con ella hacia un solo ser.
Y vendrán los estremecimientos… los silenciosos suspiros… los tiernos
gemidos… los sabores salinos… las meladas perpetuas en su vaivén gratificante
para en un susurro de cadencias, llegar juntos al oasis de los ensueños.
Y en la marea de los sentidos, en las olas más altas, bañándose los goces que se recrean en éxtasis.
Cuando los dos enamorados caen rendidos al mismo tiempo en las profundidades antes insospechadas y ahora insondables y el universo desaparece alrededor y la incertidumbre no apresura la comunicación placentera que se prolonga.
Y desde el seno con su aliento te anhela y te ama y es ella que te tienta
y acaricia con la entrega sin límites en un inolvidable encuentro,
donde sacio mi sed con el pico de mis pájaros
y vuelan en círculos mis manos ansiando tocarte y aún más te añoro.
Si fuera un peregrino
perdería mi noche bajo las palmeras de oro
y con la brisa de tus sueños de aroma salado,
bebería tus aires de gotas
estrellas para iluminar mi camino
en una playa libre de palabras.
Y abrazado de arena en sombras
sin ropa en la espuma
con olas latidas
quiero regresar al momento sagrado que hay en ti.
Y ella me revela…
El ángulo de mis labios se revienta con el roce de tu ola dócil
emisaria de lluvias y de rocíos resbalosos,
visos que inflaman mi vientre...
anhelos que irrumpen al asumirte,
y un desierto se apodera de mi cuerpo,
se agrieta mi vínculo,
traspasando el aura, consumida.
Y cuando me penetras
impregnas cada melodía,
y me enlazo en infusión en el cielo
para filtrar cada gota de sonido,
y calar mi savia de diosa
sobre tu raíz,
y acariciar mi cámara seducida contra tus bosques,
con la misma libación con la que hechizas mis arcanos,
enigmas de aguamieles, guardados entre mis piernas...
Ramón Martínez López
DESPIERTA MI SECRETO
Ved en sombras el cuarto,
y en el lecho desnudos,
el nudo vivo de los dos amantes...
boca con boca, lengua a lengua...
y pecho contra pecho,
se hace más apretado....
el nudo estrecho entre nuestros cuerpos,
bailotean los dedos delirantes,
suspenderse el aliento...
unos instantes y he aquí....
el nudo sexual completo,
un desorden de sábanas y almohadas,
dos sonrojadas cabezas despeinadas,
una suelta palabra indiferente...
un poco de hambre.....
un poco de agotamiento,
un infantil deseo de pureza....
y un vago olor cualquiera en el ambiente,
¡¡Eres buen amante!!
Secreto de dos amantes
Solo tú y yo sabemos lo que ignora la gente
al cambiar un saludo ceremonioso y frío,
porque nadie sospecha que es falso tu desvío,
ni cuánto amor esconde mi gesto indiferente.
Solo tú y yo sabemos porqué mi boca miente,
relatando la historia de un fugaz amorío;
y tú apenas me escuchas y yo no te sonrío...
y aún nos arde en los labios algún beso reciente.
Solo tú y yo sabemos que existe una simiente
germinando en la sombra de este surco vacío,
porque su flor profunda no se ve, ni se siente.
Y así, las dos orillas, tu corazón y el mío,
pues, aunque las separa la corriente de un río,
por debajo del río se unen secretamente.
CHAKRA TANTRA REIKI. 75$.
Balancing chakras, kundalini energy, Shiva-Shakti attunement and massage technics. Good for healing male-female issues.
You will receive the manual for each of these systems as well as the distant attunements and certificate.
SEXUAL IMPRINT FLUSH $25
SEXUAL EMPOWERMENT $50
EGYPTIAN TANTRIC REIKI $200
PINK DIAMOND $100
SHIVA LINGAN SHAKTI YONI ATTUNEMENT $25
YIN-YAN MAGNETIC ATTRACTION $25
SEX MAGIC POWER ENERGY$50
VIRILITY CARE $25
EROTIC EMPOWERMENT $25
SHEILA NAGID EMPOWERMENT $25
CHUAN MU GODDESS OF BEDROOM ATTUNEMENT $25
TANTRA TWIN ESSENCE $25
OXYTOCIN LOVE ESSENCE $50
Tantric Sexual Healing and the Tantric Empowerment Process
By Sir Clifford N. Alford, Th.D, D.D, RBT
Priestess Sarah Hines, KRMT
Sir Clifford Speaks:
Chapter 1: Introduction --
Red Tantra is one of the oldest forms of Goddess worship on the earth today, and dates back to the worship of Amara-Omni in the ancient Regency of MU. It was first introduced by the Kumara, who were also known as the 32 Suns of God, and were here among us one-hundred and four thousand years ago. The purpose of Red Tantra is the use of human sexuality for the purpose of healing and greater spiritual enlightenment.
This course of study will cover the processes for both women and men, and is based upon the training I have received from the Church and School of Wicca, various seminars I have taken, and the advice and training given to my second wife and myself by a Tantra Master named Dr. Alan Saxon. Whenever Alan was teaching in Tulsa, OK he would stay in our home, participate in our rituals, and share his vast knowledge with us in both instruction and practical exercises. Many examples will be given throughout this process based upon my actual clinical work as a sex therapist and educator during the past seventeen years, but that work would have been much less successful had it not been for knowing Alan.
In the following pages, we will give detailed coverage of three separate processes. The first will be the process of Tantric Sexual Healing which frees both women and men from the bondage that has been placed upon them by the patriarchal culture that has ruled most of the earth for the past six-thousand years, and will be given for both gay and heterosexual couples, and both women and men. This process involves the use of mudras, breath-work and sexual stimulation and manipulation without intercourse. It is labor intensive for the therapist, and very stimulating and pleasurable for the client. And, it heals the negative traits associated with each of the Chakras. As we go through life, and experience various traumas, we may say that we forgive those who may have been involved in the incidents, but every reminder carries an emotional charge with it. This process will not erase your memories, but it will erase the negative emotional charge associated with it bringing healing thereby.
The second process will cover the first of two tantric empowerment processes which again uses the mudras, breath-work and sexual stimulation process except that this time we will be working to empower the positive qualities of the chakras while following the paths known in “The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali” as the “Path of the Sages” and the “Path of the Mother”. This process brings the recipient into a condition of complete spiritual and sexual empowerment. And, for women, frees their ability to have an unlimited number of powerful orgasms which lead to even greater personal power and enlightenment.
The third process uses two ancient spiritual tools known as the Phurba and the Dorje to empower the client to enter into the most powerful form of sexual healing that has ever been known on the earth. This tradition was originally taught in ancient Sumeria and then spread throughout the Middle East and Asia before finally arriving in Tibet and Nepal 60,000 years ago. The end result brings into being sexual healing practitioners who, through the medium of sexual intercourse can bring healing that is spiritual, mental/emotional and physical all at the same time. All true healing takes place within the person who is suffering the disease condition. The healer is simply a channel for the extra healing energies that are needed, and in this case, provides the greatest gift possible in any healing process. This gift is known as “The Service of the Heart”, and it not only works for the person receiving the energies directly, but also for up to one-hundred and ten-thousand other souls indirectly. All of this will be explained in detail including the use of the ritual dagger (Phurba) and the spiritual thunderbolt (Dorje).
An additional part of this training will be on the use of herbs, acupressure and other therapies to combat sexually transmittable diseases and prevent pregnancy. To begin with this process, eat at least two handfuls of green grapes daily as they are the single best defense against all sexually transmittable diseases. Other more specific remedies will be covered for each of the known STDs. For the purpose of contraception (avoiding unwanted pregnancies) women should drink a cup of pennyroyal tea prior to any sexual activity, and then have another afterward as well as douche with some prior to bathing. Both American and European Pennyroyal prevents the fertilization of eggs in the uterus, and makes it very highly unlikely that a fertilized egg can adhere to the wall of the uterus. It also helps to abort current pregnancies so be careful how you use it!
While it is much more preferable for a person to go through the training and empowerment directly, that is not always possible due to the great distance the practitioner may be from the client. Therefore, we will also provide a detailed list of resources concerning tantric training in the appendix. Some of these, with one missing variation, cover the Tantric Healing Process in their training. By applying what you learn here with their materials you will be well upon the way to becoming able to provide this service to both your loved ones and to others who are in need. As there are currently only three people in the United States who are qualified to empower “The Service of the Heart” you can contact me for that work, and we will find a way to make it happen for you.
The women of power who were systematically hunted down and murdered by the Roman Catholic Church’s un-Holy Office of the Inquisition were these women who were able to heal in so many wonderful ways, and the ones they feared the most were those who engaged in sexual forms of healing that led the recipient into true empowerment and spiritual freedom. There were relatively few men engaged openly in this work so less is known of their fate, but many of them were tortured and burned at the stake as well.
Many of these people were Priestesses of Isis, Druids, the Priests of Poseidon, and the various cults of Temple Prostitutes. Until the evil brought forth by fundamentalist religion, being a Temple Prostitute was an honored profession. While a whore simply provided sex for money, a Temple Prostitute engaged in sex for spiritual enlightenment and healing. Either she, or he, was given a donation afterwards for the care of the temple and the livelihood of those who served therein. It was both the Catholic Church and Islam who changed the belief, by force and terror, that a prostitute is a whore. The day is soon coming when this position of honor will be restored, and the evil of fundamentalist religion will be no more.
This manual is a part of that restoration process. Simply put, I do the activities that I am writing about, and so can you. The healing and empowerment that I see in people is reason enough to do this work in spite of any names that other people may care to call me. The change in people’s lives will get you more business than you can handle, and it will get you more friends than you will ever know what to do with.
Chapter 2: The Tantric Healing Process –
There is no way around the fact that this process is hard work for the therapist. Good aerobic exercise, and some weight training for your arms and shoulders, is a must for the therapist. There are some products that help with this process, and if you are interested in making this easier, then call me at 918-706-8171. I’ll share this with you. Once you have an exercise program in process then get on with the rest of this information as it will get easier as you go.
The next step is to understand how this process works, and why it does. As people go through life they experience many forms of trauma. In the culture of the United States of America, much of that stress and trauma is sexual. Sex is treated as being dirty and evil, and yet sex is used to sell everything including interest in the very churches that condemn it. Patriarchy has damaged so many people, both male and female, and everyone needs some degree of healing. Men are steeped in fear, and women are treated as objects of pleasure rather than as people with feelings, hopes and dreams. Since most of the damage has been done by men to women, we are going to cover the Tantric Healing Process for women first, and the men who provide this healing will get much of their own in the process. And, since spiritual law works the way it does, the ten-thousand women closest to the woman receiving it will receive some great measure of healing as well. This is an important part of the process for you to remember later on.
Here are the basic mechanics of a tantric massage, and how it affects a woman. Essentially, this is a form of sexual foreplay that is intended to both set your partner at ease and excite her sexually. Foreplay has the ability to make her feel loved and pampered. Unfortunately, most men don’t know how to do it well so we will put it in writing here, and demonstrate it on the series of DVDs that you have received with this book. Please do not watch the DVDs first, but read the book, and then watch each DVD as you are instructed to do. This will make the process easier for you to learn.
The first part of the tantric massage has to do with the setting in which it is happening. Soft lights, candles, incense and a clean space are a good start. Bathing before hand is also good, and bathing the lady receiving your attentions can be a very sensual experience for her as well. Add bath oils and pleasant scents to the water, allow her to soak awhile, and then gently wash her body and her hair for her. Dry her tenderly afterwards, and then leave her to finish while you make your final preparations and turn on some sensual music for the massage portion of this process.
When your lady comes out, then give her a few ounces of some pleasant non-alcoholic drink, such as Damiana Tea, and then sit Indian style on the floor, and help her sit face to face with you with her legs around your body. Place your right hand on the small of her back and your left hand over her heart, and ask her to place her hands in the same positions on your body. Her pubic mound should be over your penis, but there absolutely must not be any penetration. Ask the Chohan of the Second Ray, Master Kuthumi, to give both of you the Kundalini Fire Meditation. (This will cause a band of heat energy to start at the sacrum, at the base of the spine, and it will slowly work up the body and out the top of the head. This process usually takes about ten to fifteen minutes, and it cleanses and empowers the Chakras of the body. You should continue this initial part of the process while this is going on.)Then, while looking into her eyes, pledge yourself to do all that you can to treat her with love, tenderness and respect, and to help her lovingly through this healing process. Then, she makes a similar pledge to receive this gift that you are giving her, and to share that healing with you and anyone else capable of receiving it. This brings into play a universal spiritual law known as the Law of Correspondence.
Having made your pledges, begin by lightly kissing each other. Explore the lips by kissing, nibbling and sucking on them with the understanding that there are eight specific areas which have their own distinct flavor and sensation. Be careful to note any place that pleasures her the most, and also make note of the most pleasurable places on her body that you touch and kiss later on. These are her erogenous zones. By bending her head forward and to the side, you should be able to reach the area just behind her ears and below them with your lips. By kissing and lightly sucking on these areas, it is almost guaranteed that she will moan or purr with pleasure, and she may even have her first small orgasm. Other such general areas will be covered as we go.
Next, while continuing to kiss her, begin lightly touching and stroking her body. Do NOT begin by grabbing and squeezing her breasts! In fact, touch every part of her that you can before you even begin to venture close to her breasts, and leave her vaginal area alone. Then, when you do approach the breasts, do so indirectly. Lightly brush the sides of the breasts with your hands and finger tips. Then begin lightly tracing circles, spirals and figure eights around them, beginning as far away from the nipples as possible, and working your way in – slowly – until you are lightly brushing against the edges of the aureoles while not actually touching the nipples. This is guaranteed to drive her just a little bit crazy with desire, and it often results in some more orgasms. If it doesn’t then be patient as it will happen soon enough.
A possible problem for the breast work is if she has had breast enlargement surgery as this often results in the severing of the nerves connecting the breasts with the clitoris. If this is the case then you will either see or feel scarring underneath her breasts. The lack of sensation may become irritating to her as she was likely not told this would happen and remembers what sexual stimulation felt like prior to the surgery that was very likely pressed upon her by some calloused and insensitive man. If this happens, then return to caressing her body and kissing her until the irritation has passed.
The next step in this process is determined by either of two events: either she has become sufficiently aroused that she is obviously ready to move on to other activities, or you have become sufficiently aroused that you must separate from her so as not to ejaculate. When either one or both has happened, then either help her onto a massage table, or lay her down on a pallet on the floor or a bed, whichever you have been on. This is when the actual massage process will begin.
Chapter 3: Preparing The Massage Area –
Before the woman receiving the healing comes out from her bath, prepare the pallet, bed or massage table space in some creative ways. Lighting candles, essential oil diffusers and incense is always good, but not with types that are irritating. You can avoid this by spending some time talking about this process with her beforehand. If she does not know what scents please her the most then light some with her, and see how you both react. Even though you want scents that please her, it is also not good to be burning something that you are allergic to as you will not have the luxury of stopping to blow your nose along the way, and you must be able to breathe freely to do what is needed during the main part of the session. Give her some Damiana tea to drink at every opportunity while in the planning stages, and consider giving some to her for the few ounces of drink immediately prior to each session. She should also drink it daily between sessions. Damiana is a very pleasant aphrodisiac herbal tea. The man should be drinking Horny Goat Weed Tea as it does exactly what its name implies.
Here are some other herbal aphrodisiacs for your consideration. Some of them are good in food and drinks as well as in the other mediums of delivery we have covered before. We will cover this list in a way that will share the essence and value of each one, briefly, but let’s begin with a lost part of the equation so often seen in western culture – the proposal of marriage. Here is how it often goes: The man brings the woman red roses, and lets her enjoy the scent and beauty in this expression of love. Then, he shows her a diamond ring, and he asks her to marry him.
Understanding the chemical response here is of vital importance: The scent of rose enhances mental clarity in non-social settings, but heightens sexual lust in the presence of the preferred sex for romantic involvement. The color red stands for both love and passion and the diamond heightens the dominant emotions the person is feeling. This will often result in a favorable response in the heat of the moment that may or may not carry over later on. What is now seen as tradition was originally seen as a means of a man gaining, as it were, an unfair advantage over the woman due to this understanding of how this aphrodisiac combination works. And, whether it is done with or without this knowledge, it still works today.
So, here is my favorite list of aphrodisiacs: and you already know why my first, and most favorite, is the scent and sight of roses with its slightly heady scent of sweetness and cloves. Lay your lady down in a bed of rose petals and she will never forget you. Vanilla works the same as roses, but has a heavier scent and energy. And, while rose works best for women, vanilla works best for men. Whether used in food or drinks, candles, oils, incense or as a cologne, the results are usually pleasing. Passion Fruit flower stimulates the senses, increases the libido and cleanses the aura of negative energy. Benzoin is warming to the body, and smells much like vanilla. Cardamom is spicy with a fragrance suggestive of the deep woods in springtime. Cinnamon is dry, musky, sharp and sweet, and helps the body to properly use both insulin and glucose in the blood. Jasmine has sweet and musky scents and makes a very pleasant tea, and Sandalwood is warming to both the body and soul, purges negative energy from the aura and brings in positive energy, protects and yet excites the sexual senses.
Still other aphrodisiacs are such herbs as roasted Maca Root which stimulates the endocrine system in general, Quince is used by an Aztec medicine woman I know, and her husband is a very happy man. Both Muira Puama and Yohimbe help increase libido, sexual arousal and overcome erectile dysfunction in men. The same is true for Ambergris which is a substance produced in the lower intestines of the sperm whale. European Mandrake Root and Fruits lowers inhibitions and so should be used for those who fear sex, and by all sexual healers. The same is true of Spanish Fly. Oysters increase the amount of testosterone available to men and is often a favorite aphrodisiac for bi-sexual women.
Other aphrodisiacs are such herbs as Clary Sage, Myrrh, Frankincense, Geranium, Grapefruit, Juniper, Chocolate, Strawberry, Lemon, Orange, Melissa, Neroli, Nutmeg, Poppy seed, Palmarosa, Sweet Almond Oil, Patchouli, Petitgrain, Wolfberry and Ylang Ylang. Experiment with them all, and find the ones that work for you and your partner.
As many massage oils have a sweet almond oil base, there are many massage therapists who wind up in sexual activities with their clients and wondering why it happened. Some of them may get a clue from this book. Either they can change carrier oils to something like grape seed oil, olive oil or sesame oil, or they can choose to live on the edge and continue using sweet almond oil. Considering the work that I do, I always use a base oil containing sweet almond.
Having determined a few items of interest in your setting, lets move on to the actual massage. Be certain to have several ounces of massage oil on hand of a scent or combination of scents that appeal to your lady. Either you can buy some that are premixed, or you can make your own by adding up to eight drops of any combination of essential oils per ounce of sweet almond oil.
Begin this first massage process in a slightly different way than is normally done. Lay her face down on the pallet or bed and, beginning at her head, kiss every part of her that you can covering her face, hair and neck, her arms and hands, her back, buttocks legs, and feet. Then, help her turn over, and repeat the process until you get to the legs. Here you will cover one leg on the way down, and then the other leg on the way up with your head and body between her legs. When you approach the pubic area then ask for her permission to enter her Sacred Space. When she gives you her permission then do so by lightly kissing and licking the vaginal area, and gently sucking on the clitoris which will become slightly engorged with blood and easy to locate near the forward portion of the vaginal cleft. Rather than working directly on the clitoris, either heavily or for long periods, spend more time slowly and gently licking around the edges of it as then will drive her wild with pleasure!
You will know when it is time to move on when, once again, either of two things will happen. Either she will be ready for something else and say so in some way, or – due to a lack of exercise in this way with your tongue – it will begin to become painful for you to continue, and you will think it is likely to fall off and flop around screaming in pain on the bed. When either of these happens then it is time to move on.
Move to her right side, and take some oil into your hands. Rub your hands together to warm it, and then gently caress her body as you spread it over her shoulders and breasts using circular motions. Then spread it over her abdomen, both across it and in circular patterns, kneading the muscles a bit more firmly. Follow this by generously oiling the pelvic and vaginal area, spending some time gently stroking the vaginal cleft and working around the clitoris.
This completes the first session’s massage process. We will cover the massage process for the remaining sessions before moving on. After this coverage, it will be time for you to watch the first video. However, I have no doubt that your Lover will be most happy to have you “practice’ this first session regularly and often!
Each of the subsequent massage sessions will start with a general relaxing sensual massage. Begin at the head with a scalp massage.